Mastering The Secret Language Of Charismatic Communication | Vanessa Van Edwards | All the Hacks #46

Vanessa Van Edwards, a master of communication, joins Chris to explore the language of human social cues and what it takes to be charismatic. They also cover the impact that the four primary forms of communication (vocal, words, tone, and imagery) can have on your success in communication with business colleagues, friends, and family.

Vanessa Van Edwards (@vvanedwards) is the lead investigator at Science of People. She is also the bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People, which has been translated into 16 languages. More than 50 million people have watched her engaging YouTube tutorials and TEDx Talk. Her much anticipated new book Cues: Master the Secret Language of Charismatic Communication released March 1st, 2022.

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This episode of All the Hacks is #46.
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Follow Vanessa Van Edwards on Twitter:
https://www.twitter.com/vvanedwards

Check out her website:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/

Watch her TED talk:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cef35Fk7YD8

Take Vanessa’s Charisma test at:
https://www.scienceofpeople.com/category/charisma/

Vanessa’s YouTube Channel:
https://www.youtube.com/channe....l/UCj9QBB4bNTv29f4oF

And check out her books:
Captivate: The Science of succeeding with people
Cues: Master the secret language of charismatic communication

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Chris Hutchins is a Life Hacker, Points Optimizer, Host of All the Hacks Podcast, Product at Wealthfront, co-founder of Grove and Milk, and a former partner at Google Ventures.

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Show Notes
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[00:00] Vanessa Van Edwards - Master of Charismatic Communication
[03:00] What is a communication cue and how do they tie into charismatic communication?
[05:00] How would you break down and define what charisma is?
[08:45] What positive cues has Vanessa already brought to this interview with Chris in order to be received the way she intended to be?
[11:00] Mistakes in video call cues
[13:30] What words help convey warmth and competence? Examples of the worst ways to start a meeting with your team.
[18:30] How to ruin the mood of a virtual meeting right off the bat.
[21:45] How do you gracefully wrap up a conversation with work colleagues or friends?
[23:00] Are cues just as important in our written communication?
[28:00] How to properly outline and transcribe a charismatic email
[33:00] The practice of scoring your own communication on the balance of uses of warmth versus competence uses.
[33:30] The Impact of choosing a good background on virtual call and meetings
[36:30] Hand cues, talking with your hands in a conversation
[37:45] Rapid fire closing questions.
[40:15] Resources on cues for All the Hacks listeners. Wrapping up the Show with Vanessa Van Edwards

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